Been with this guy 2 years in total. Living together 1 year. Back in March I had my mirena taken out, I want to have a baby before it’s too late, I’m 39 . Before I decided to do so, I asked my SF, not once but at least 3 times how he felt about the decision. He always said he had no problems with it. The day I made the appointment, I let him know the appointment was made. The day of the appointment, he drove me.

Our sex lives slowly decreased and back in October it completely diminished. We had a pregnancy scare the ending of October and haven’t had sex since then. He never initiates and i lay freshly showered and naked next to him every night and every time I try , he finds a reason not to.

I’ve voiced my feelings and nothing has changed.

I’m on the verge of cheating . I feel neglected