Pressure of getting pregnant when my best friend started her ttc journey

Lindsey.

My best friend is starting her ttc journey next month. She’s getting her IUD out in a few weeks. She already has a 9 year old ( “accident” when she was 21) but she was over today and talking about getting pregnant at the same time. We have been actively trying for 4 months and off birth control for over 6. I’m starting to worry we may be having fertility issues and I’m kinda jealous that she may get pregnant before me. It’s a her feeling.