So frustrated. Who says stuff like that?! šŸ˜­

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I havenā€™t said anything to them because I donā€™t want to deal with the drama but my best friend and her mom are really pissing me off. Like theyā€™re asking me all the time if we have a name picked out and when I tell them no (because we arenā€™t telling anyone), they get an attitude. Today my best friend was like omg thatā€™s absolutely ridiculous. I just said hmm..well I sure donā€™t see a problem with it. šŸ¤·šŸ¼ā€ā™€ļø like sorry that I didnā€™t have a name picked out in the first trimester like some people.

Then she lifts up my shirt and is like oh do you have any stretch marks yet? I point out 2 tiny ones on my hips and she was like oh. Then puts her hand next to my belly button and says well I wish and hope you get them here like spider webs.

HOW FUCKING RUDE IS THAT!!!! You guys... I would never wish stretch marks on anyone. If you get them, cool. If you donā€™t then thatā€™s great too! I get that sheā€™s just jealous but sheā€™s had 3 kids and Iā€™ve spent the last 5 years being jealous of her for being able to have kids which we have struggled!!!!! The stretch mark comment really hurt my feelings. All I could say was yeah, I mean if I donā€™t get them now then I think Iā€™ll get them after delivery.