How did you know when to try again?

Question

I’m currently bleeding after my miscarriage on Saturday and after talking with my husband he mentioned that he wanted to try again as soon as possible. I’m so afraid of miscarrying again that I’m not sure I want try again. How did you and your significant other know it was the right time to try again? How long did it take to conceive after your miscarriage?

Answer

Make sure you are emotionally ready for it. After my miscarriage at 12 weeks, I wanted to get pregnant ASAP. I felt like every day I wasn’t pregnant again, I was wasting time. I was so excited for our baby and was so devastated when we lost it, as anyone would be. 
My doctor just said wait for my HCG levels reach 0 again, then we could try again. I miscarried in November and my levels just went down to 0 about two weeks ago. I got my period on Christmas Eve and my fertile week starts next week. I haven’t had the opportunity to try again, but since it has been six weeks since my miscarriage, I feel ready to try again. Making sure you’re mentally ready is most important. Everything else will fall into place after that.  
Wishing you the best 💛

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I didn’t want to wait at all because I couldn’t handle not being pregnant so we started trying again the month we lost our little girl (August) I just had a chemical at hair under 5 weeks on December 3rd.
hoping by some miracle we did i get a positive in January because my daughter was due in February and if I’m not pregnant again by then I’m sure I’ll fall apart .

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We tried again right away. I was 5 weeks when I miscarried in October. It was heartbreaking i couldn’t imagine waiting. I got pregnant my second cycle after and now I’m 4 weeks and 5 days. It’s scary, every cramp I’m worried. But I’m also hopeful this will work out this time. Only you will know when you’re ready!

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We both decided not to try until 5 months later. And got pregnant the first month again but had another miscarriage. Dr told me to wait 9 months and we didn’t listen. Thought it would be fine. So now we’re waiting until it’s been a year since. (In April)

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Miscarried in July at 10 weeks (measuring 8). I also needed a D&C. This month is our first month trying. I just didn’t feel confident in trying again right away. I wanted to wait until I felt my body and mind we’re both somewhat healed. I also wanted to be regular with my cycles again after the D&C so I would have a better idea of ovulation and conception times. 🤷🏻‍♀️

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My miscarriage was in August, and we started to try again in November (still trying)
But I didn’t even want to have sex until mid October because I was just so heartbroken and traumatized. Thankfully my hubby was so patient with me.

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