Why do some people feel the need to crush other people's happiness? I just had this happen to me... I arrived at work today and my so call friend that works with me walks in and starts asking what my plans are for after work wanting to know if I'm going to be heading to my man's house to bring in the new year. I respond to her and tell her that he is getting together with his guy friends tonight to play cards. It's kind of their tradition when they are all actually off from work themselves. Which in my mind I was cool with it. I'm comfortable enough in my relationship to not freak out on him and accuse him of cheating. I mean sure we have had our ups and downs which this "friend" has heard about a lot of our downs (I know shouldn't air our dirty laundry) but never once in these two years that we have been together have I thought he could possibly be cheating on me. Yet what does this friend say as soon as I tell her I won't be spending New year's <a href="https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.glow.android.eve">Eve</a> with my man??? She informs me that her boyfriend thinks my man is cheating on me because I don't spend the night all the time and he cancels plans because he doesn't feel well and especially since I can't spend New year's <a href="https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.glow.android.eve">Eve</a> with him... First off that thought has never crossed my mind so why in the heck are you going to try to get that to start festering in my mind? I have never had a reason to think that yet you, who knows only what I have told you about him want to rock that boat and start having me think that about my man? Why would you do that? Is it because you are unhappy with your man and think your man is cheating on you? Just because I don't live with my man and just because I trust him enough to be comfortable with him spending the evening with his guy friends means you have to try and tear my confidence down in regards to my relationship? Why would you do that?

Update...

This same friend has started stalking my boyfriend trying to find dirt on him. Even though i have repeatedly asked her to stop and told her that she's not going to find anything because he's not hiding anything. And she just keeps repeating that she feels he is a dirty dog and she is going to prove it to me. All she is doing is pissing me off because I've asked her to stop. There's no reason for her to stalk him. She has definitely crossed the friend line in my opinion.