Diallated?

Nicole

I’m due the 4th of January and lost my mucus plug today (sorry if tmi) I’ve been having the lightning bolt shooting pains on and off for a few weeks but that’s it, just waiting for he/she to make their appearance. I’m from the U.K. and saw my midwife last Thursday (don’t mean to be rude but she’s not the most helpful/informative) and she took my blood pressure and a water sample as usual, she didn’t measure my bump as I’m measuring a bit small and I’m having my 2nd growth scan on the 2nd jan (the first scan they said everything was fine but i need a 2nd one just to double check).

The point of this ramble is should I have been told if I’m diallated? I’ve seen so many people say they’re diallated 1/2/3cm even as far as 36 weeks but I’ve not had any kind of check up to see if I’m diallated and just wondering if it’s the norm?