We planned this pregnancy. And since I've gotten pregnant I have been growing largely and quickly. I've been doing exercises to help control it. I think its helped. But my husband is always making little comments, even in front of his friends, and commenting on how much I eat. Hes worried I wont lose the weight, this is my fourth so I get the getting bigger quicker, and I've always lost the weight. But he doesn't really touch me and he sees my emotions as a burden and me being intolerable. We are supposed to be together on this and i feel so alone. Dont get me wrong he tries to control so much of what i do cause hes worried about the baby. But i dont feel hes worrying about me.