Feeling super unattractive...

Erika

I will have been married for 8 years in August 2019. We've been through 1 miscarriage in 2013. I thought we would both be excited about our coming baby. But since the 1st trimesyer my husband has be distancing himself from me. I've got to beg him to hold me. Any conversation about paul is met with indifference. No sex since 2t. No comments about me apearance or affection. He spends 95% of his time with me playing video games and talking with friends on discord. Makes sure to go to bed after i sleep and wakes when i leave for work.He'll ask for a blow job but will no recipricate in anyway. I've tried to ask and plead for

affection to no avail. I feel like an unattractive lump. And when i woke up this morning to him masturbating it was my last straw. I know he hads needs too. But i feel pretty shitty and depressed. And i dont have much hope that our flame will rekindle after paul is born. Have any of you gone through this with a significant other durring pregnancy?