Middle name frustrations.

Everyone loves the first name we decided on! Not that it mattered if they did or not, but it is a relief in a way. Small vent I suppose, probably long. Still related to the name subject so I'm guessing it goes here?

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But my mother and one of the middle names (it's tradition for us to have two) is driving me nuts. I've told her many times how I will be doing it but she keeps shoving random crap in my face. Here is an idea so you get what I'm talking about:

Daughter 1 first name- my commonly used family middle name- husband's grandmother's first names combined- last name

Daughter 2 first name- husband's commonly used family middle name- my grandmother's first names combined- last name

So I've come up with a combination for daughter 2 second middle name and asked my mom about it (Mila) Mildred and Lola combined. She insists I do Franjean, a combination of their middle names. I politely said I preferred the first names. Now she's sending me weird crap like "Mold is a good combo, you should go with it." And then threw a FIT because I said absolutely not.

I'm still going to go with what I want to do. I guess I wished she would've been more helpful with ideas.