My sisters kids
So my sister is 22...... and her baby daddy is 27..... her children are 1 and 9 months. The two of them dont make much money so they cant afford to move out of our grandmothers house, so the four of them live in the house hold with five other people making it very crowded. Whenever they feed their kids they dint clean up after them which leave me or our mother to do it which I have grown sick of. They (I feel) abuse the kids ( her baby daddy is an angry man) and he gets angry when the 1 year old boy crys so he will hit him he will cry louder and he will yell at him and call him a punk and a chump and hits him what I feel is hard he has done this for so long my nephew jumps when I reach for him at times .....his father even spoke on it a couple of days ago saying of I think I should stop he is flinching whenever I try to touch him. They do not bath them not even once a week maybe every other month or if my mom and I do it it would be regular but they just put their play gates up and let them cry and scream all day. Since we "come to their rescue" as the father says too much we can no longer "baby" him. I see him being drained of all individuality and of any soul he has. When I take him he just hugs me so tight and I wish that I could take him away but I am not in a financial position to. They've never had their own place they just live place to place they are not able to care for their kids they sit in the same clothes for weeks until somebody else takes the time to change them or they get their clothes wet or pee through their dippers then they take off their clothes and let them run around in diapers. So yeah watching it if you heard how hard he hits them then gets so angry at us and will begin to argue with us when we tell him it's too much. All he does it sit on the video game he doesnt pay attention to them unless he is administering punishment. What can I do to help them should I just go to a homeless shelter because I'm the one with a problem? Or should I try to find these babies help. They didnt ask to be here and for their dad to be some 30 year old dancer that pays to go do shows or for their mother to be a woman that never wanted the first kid let alone the second. My sisters even told me she regrets everything but didnt believe in abortion. I know I keep going on I keep thinking of suff. What do I do? Should I just leave?
If I call CPS I will be homeless and never able to talk to my family again.
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