So recently I started seeing a guy romantically. I’ve know him since I was 14 and now I’m 16. We started hanging out a lot recently, and within the three times we hung out: he ate me out, I gave him a blow job, and we had sex.

I really like him and in the span of me knowing him we always planned sex because we were both virgins and we wanted to do it. But knowing this I feel afraid that he maybe using me; it doesn’t seem like his personality.

He always says he misses me and talks about how much he likes me to our mutual friend. Even when we’re hanging out/going out to eat he talks about how much he likes me, how gorgeous I am, also how responsible I am, and that he’s really happy to be with me.

I’m bummed out because he lives an hour away. I was talking to some people about it, and they said that type of distance isn’t bad. I also feels kinda weird how in the span of us hanging out three times we did all that stuff. It was all my first time. I feel extremely comfortable with him and all that...

I just never felt this strongly about someone and I’m happy to be seeing him. A lot of my friends have been agreeing on how when I’m with him I seem to have less anxiety as usual.

I just need opinions on the situation because we both know it will be hard to have a label (which we don’t at the moment). I’m just curious if I seem easy for doing all this stuff with him because it’s not like we didn’t know each other before it happened.