New Years Break 🤦🏽‍♀️

I love my boyfriend. Love his company, love that he texts me everyday(including ft & reg calls), love when he comes over and spend time with me, and like anything else couples usually do. But now and then I seem to always get mad at him for the smallest things. We’ve been together for almost 9 months. It is the longest relationship I’ve ever had in my entire life.

There may be a few things I get upset about with certain things he does. Things like...

😪Little White Lies

😪Calls me and plays the game the whole time we’re on the phone and say he’s paying attention when he barely heard what I said or he would have me on low to where he can’t hear me. The I would have to repeat myself. ( hes 25 btw) I’m not sure if him playing games period is okay or not. But I just feel that it shouldn’t be a thing everyday for a guy his age idk.

😪He would leave me the little remaining attention after his game and fall asleep. Even when I’m talking about something important or irrelevant.

😪Female calling.

Things like if I tell him I’m sorry I just get emotional sometimes or my sister just got mad at me for trying to help her out. He would say something like “ oh yeah that’s just y’all females or y’all always do things like that” and he would call females out constantly.

😪 Last But not least. I feel that he picks his friends before me. He would drop and cut things short in the middle of our hang out or at the end of a dinner and try to go hang with his friends. Like it’s a must. I even asked him to come to thanksgiving dinner with me and my family and he told me he won’t have the time and that he’ll be with his family. But before the end of the night around 7 I had found out that he went to go hang with his friends at short notice. When I asked him weeks ahead and the week of would he come and be with me for thanksgiving.

Honestly, my opinion is that all men/boys are just slow/dumb. That they don’t really think at how the littlest things can affect us in a certain way. On New Year’s eve I told him I needed a break because the more he had constantly did the things he had did it would stress me out even more and I really didn’t need that at the moment.

But now idk if I should make this permanent or just talk to him and try to make things work out between us.

ANY THOUGHTS 💭 PLEASE?