Hi

While I’ve been sexually active for a few years now, I don’t think i’ve ever had an orgasm during intercourse. The first one I had was when I was 15 with my first boyfriend from fingering... Though I remember that being amazing, it’s been many a years since I’ve felt that again. I love having sex, and it just hasn’t about the orgasm for me since then.

I’ve been very closed off about masturbation and just recently got into trying it. I bought my first vibrator yesterday (yay!) and i’ve been experimenting.

I’ve read a lot about how it takes time and such and how you may not recognize when it happens. When I think I’m getting close, it’ll feel too intense and then I’ll stop or take a break or go to another part of my body for a bit. Still, I haven’t been able to figure it out! Does the whole process just take practicing and adjustment? Or am I doing something wrong??