So my husband and I just celebrated our 2yr wedding anniversary in October of 18. I say all that to give you a timeframe.

When we were dating His was the sweetest, nicest guy.

But since we’ve been married he’s very emotionally & mentally abusive. He’s very mean verbally. I’ve wanted a baby but he didn’t so we wait for him to be ready (which I understand). Last March we started that journey to try and he’s made every excuse in the book to not have sex. He told me if I want sex, go loose weight and then he will be sexually attracted to me. He wants someone with a “teen body” but I’m 33 I’m

Not overweight but I do have a little belly. Also When we argue over something that upsets me, I ask him if he’s going to apologize and he says he doesn’t care. He doesn’t love me, he’s not in love with me. That he never wanted to be married. I’m just curious if I should step away for a week for so, so he can see what he’s missing and maybe he will change or what?!? Any suggestions or thoughts......