Hello everyone.. I wasn’t sure which group to put this in so I am sorry if this offends or angers anyone

As you can tell from the photo.. I’m pregnant. And I’m here looking for advice and no negativity please.

I was seeing this boy for a short period of time, being sexually active, and so you have more information this is his story.

He currently has a baby on the way, 31 weeks I think, it wasn’t planned and she didn’t tell him she was pregnant until she was 16 weeks.. so by that time there was things that could be done, but being 16 weeks the baby is formed, has a heartbeat etc. They weren’t in a great relationship and he is convinced she’s tried to trap him or just wants another baby.

They split up and she blocked him on EVERYTHING and wanted nothing to do with him or him having any contact with their unborn baby.

So we were going on dates, nights away and she found out, suddenly she wants him back and he’s dropped me completely. Doesn’t want to know, but I’ve obviously had to tell him I’m pregnant.

His response is : get rid of it, we need to sort this out, if you keep it it will ruin my life i won’t be allowed anything to do with my baby, my kids will grow up to hate me, says I’m doing this because I’m a jealous psycho and it’s because i don’t want to be with him, a whole load of abuse.

Anyway I am so confused and heart broken, haven’t 2 miscarriages in the past this is the hardest decision I’ve ever had to make. I would have to bring the baby up on my own and I don’t know if I would cope. But if I have an abortion I’m scared this was my only chance to be a mum and I’ve blown it. I live at home with my mum

And I’m 21, I’ve just started a new job and I just need some honest advice. Please help me