Trying to be more like a dad than a husband

OK so there is 15 years between me and my husband. I'm 23 and he's 38 and sometimes I feel like he is trying to be more like a dad than a husband to me. For example today wean he got home after I busted my ass cleaning the house and taking care of 4 kids all day he asked me what I was doing and I simply stated that I was busting my ass trying to get the house cleaned back up. He prosided to get on to me for my mouth. And he is all the time giving me lectures on how I need to start watching what I'm doing or what I'm saying. It's really frustrating. Does anyone else have this problem and of so can you give me some kind of advice on how to fix it.