Hi to make a long story short, today I tried to have sex for the first time with a guy and at first when he tried to insert his penis, it wouldn’t fit. But then he fingered me (first time for that too) and it hurt a lot, but I knew that your first time is often painful so I allowed him to keep going. Then when actually inserted his penis into me, it hurt so bad that I actually teared up and couldn’t bare it. I know that sometimes having foreplay allows you to lubricate the vagina for easier penetration, and we did that, but I don’t know why it hurt so much? Any tips on what I can do to make it easier when I try again? (Hopefully tips that aren’t also painful)