So my boyfriend finishes very quick when we have sex. He gets turned on very easy an he’s got a very high sex drive but he has a strict no masturbation policy with himself because he says it doesn’t feel good if he just does it to himself, so the only time he ever cums is from sex. this is fine with me but the issue is when we do the deed he only ever lasts 2-5 mins.

The problem is it takes me an average of like 15-20 minutes to get there myself when I do it to myself, and even though we have plenty of foreplay directed toward me when we have sex, even if it feels really good i just never end up getting there and it does my head in. We’ve incorporated a vibrator in before as well and I still never get there

Do any of you have any tips on what I can do to get myself far enough to finish?