So this is an awful time right now. My sister in law just lost her third baby they could not find a heartbeat and has a dnc scheduled for Tuesday and i cant be there in person with her... my little 20 year old sister just found out she is pregnant with a guy who just punched her and told her she will be getting an abortion... she just came back home and everything. She is terrified and it is like 2 horrible situations right now. I had my first at 18 my second right after i turned 20 and I'm 23 with another baby who is 4 months old now. I know neither situations are mine but i do feel emotionally drianed because of them both trying to be there for both of them knowing how hard both of those situations are (i had a miscarriage a long time ago). These are two hard situations right now for 2 different women in my life....