Is it bad that I had sex with 5 different guys & I’m only 17?

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At times I regret having sex with so many guys but it’s like sex to me isn’t anything. I feel like it has no meaning and I just do it for fun but I want to stop thinking like this because I am young but it’s like why should I care ? It’s just sex

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I'll be the oddball to say it's not that weird. Sex wasnt a sacred jewel to me either. I lost my v card to a stranger I met online when I was 16 and never spoke again. And I dont regret it at all. Now I'm 20 and have had 9 total partners. Number would have kept growing had I not gotten engaged lol me and my FWB caught feelings and almost 3 years later were still going strong 😍😂💚 being safe about it is key. Condoms and birth control are your best friends. Otherwise, its nobody else business🤷‍♀️ you do you and dont let the double standard get you down. Be proud about how you feel about sex because I was just like you!

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But it’s not just sex. Idk maybe I don’t feel that way because I was raped, but even before that, I always viewed it as something special to do with someone I trusted. My mom is a health teacher, so she played a part in my view on sex as well. Idk I guess as long as you’re being safe and responsible, it doesn’t matter, but idk. We’re allowed to have different views on sex, so as long as you’re being true to yourself you do you.

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As long as you’re being safe I don’t think there’s anything wrong with that. Less than half of the people I’ve been with have meant anything to me. I don’t regret it at all. Do what’s right for you, don’t let anyone make you feel bad about it. Just be safe!!

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I don’t think numbers matter at all. As long as you’re safe and happy, that’s all that matters. Sex is fun and we shouldn’t be afraid of it. Having more or less sex does not diminish your self worth.

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I’m not a fan of giving pens body to just whoever cross ones paths but to each their own. You own your sexuality and you arent afraid of it. My only advice is to continue to be smart and protect yourself

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Because just sex can cause just stds. And at 17 do you want to mess up by accidently getting an std condoms or not. One kiss and you can get oral herpes and not know.

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It should be something special and personally I think you should save it for someone you are 100% sure you love💖

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Personally I don’t consider sex just “fun.” Sure it feels great but sex can be an outcome in pregnancy and many different STDs. U need to be smart and have respect for ur body! No offence but I bet most of the guys u slept w were only using u for sex. Have self worth hun!

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Its not just sex when you meet someone you love.. then it’ll feel like the most magical thing in the world. I’d say slow down you’re only 17 not every guy deserves your body. Ur body is supposed to be special & sacred. Save yourself for the right one & then you’ll understand sex more & that it’s not just sex. I’m 18 & lost my virginity couple months before I turned 18 to someone I’m still with & love and whew Chile a bitch be crying during sex lol. It feels so amazing & just like so much feelings is there I can never see sex as just sex & if we ever happen to break up I’d prob save myself for the person I’m supposed to marry if it isn’t him. I had a opportunity to have sex before him & I was just like hell no! I need to have feelings and love involved I can’t just give myself away.

Is it bad that I had sex with 5 different guys & I’m only 17?

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