So me and my fiancé have been talking about who is going to be the stay at home parent. It’s come down to for a boy I’ll stay home for a girl he will stay at home. Both of us will of course try to take paternity leave so the first couple months it will be both anyways but after that is when it’ll come into play. Is it crazy to have a man be the stay at home parent? I was talking to my mommy friend who has 1 and 1 on the way and she said she would never leave her man home alone for extended periods with the baby? Does anyone have any good success stories of a stay at home daddy? Should I take off the gender restrictions and just say he can be the stay at home for baby #2? Help