How to not be bitter or angry?

Question

I want a baby but my husband doesn't. I've been trying to talk to him about it for a year. My patience is getting thin and everytime I look at him and I just feel this hot anger inside my stomach. I'm 25. We're stable. He just isn't ready but I am. I'm tired of it. I dont want to leave. I love him but I'm ready for him to be ready. Like wtf.

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Well you can’t make him be ready just because you are. Just how he can’t expect you to stick around if you’re absolutely ready but he’s not. Children are a dealbreaker for a lot of people. You can only try to talk about having children for so long... maybe consider talking about what you both want to do with the relationship instead.

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Well flip the situation around. If you weren’t ready and he was pestering you about it how would you hope to be treated ?

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You can’t make someone be ready for children when you want them to be. 
You can’t make someone want children period. 
You need to come to peace and give it a couple years then revisit the subject. 
           Or
You need to make a choice on if you can wait or not. Either way it’s not fair to be bitter or angry towards your husband when he’s done nothing wrong.

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Sorry but this really isn’t up to you. He’s entitled to want or not want children. All you can do is decide if it’s a deal breaker for you. Personally I think 25 is a bit young to be considering this a lost cause but it’s also not up to me.

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Have you discussed reasons as to why he's not ready? 
You should make a realistic time plan where you both can meet half way. He's in a marriage afterall

How to not be bitter or angry?

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