Painful V- Two questions

Seesha

No sexual dysfunction in the past but in the most recent years during sex my vagina feels like it tightens so hard that my hub has to force himself in until it relaxes. Can’t even fit a finger in there. Sex is often painful bc I can’t maintain natural lubrication for long so I use artificial. After I hit my goal so to speak, it tightens back up. In the past my doctor said, “more foreplay” ...that ain’t it and I get annual exams and I’m apparently okay. Does this happen to anyone?

Also, when I get turned on..and this has been happening for years on and off when I go some time with out sex... my vagina hurtsss so bad for a couple minutes. Does that happen to anyone??