Ok so I need some advice. There’s this guy at school that I like, and he was sitting on a chair by a computer in our choir room (that’s where both of us eat lunch) and I was leaning against the desk. He accidentally moved his hand and it touched my hip, neither of us moved and his hand stayed there lightly. Then he needed to grab something behind me so he took both hands and grabbed my hips, far enough back that it was borderline my ass, and moved me. My friend saw this and thought it was weird too. Then I sat in the chair he was sitting in previously, and he sat down right on my lap. He’s a very flirty person btw, and he has done this (sitting in my lap) before, but not this much. When the choir teacher came in we had to move, and he asked me to come with him to the other side of the room and sit there. He then proceeded, for the next 15 minutes of the lunch period, to sit on my lap, lay his head on my shoulder with my head on his, and then he put his head in my lap.

The next day, we were on a field trip and he spent most of his time talking to his friends and another girl. But that night he snapped my one friend and said that he would date me but he was afraid that we would argue too much. Then I texted him and told him that I liked him, and I couldn’t tell if he liked me, that he was sending mixed signals.

Then the day after that, he was talking to some girl. He saw me and ignored what she was saying just to say hi to me and talk to me. Later during lunch we were in the choir room alone again and I was helping him find an audition song for a musical on the same computer as before. I grabbed the mouse while he was trying to take it from me and our hands touched, he left his hand there, and then grabbed my hand and put it against his chest for a minute. Then he started pounding my hand against his chest and said that I kept hurting him and to keep doing it. I didn’t know what to do so I took my hand away. Later he decided to sit on my lap again.

Over Christmas break I had a medical procedure done in which I couldn’t see anyone for two weeks so that I didn’t get sick after, today is actually the last day of my quarantine. Yay lol! Anyway, I missed his 16th birthday party because of that and he kinda seemed upset. But the day of my procedure, he texted me not to worry and to think of unicorns😂🤷🏻‍♀️. After that if I text him he won’t answer me, except on his birthday when I told him happy birthday. He will not answer my texts at all and if it’s important enough when I get to school he will talk to me about it. I honestly can’t tell at this point how he feels about me and I don’t know what to do.

Sorry guys that this might have been hard to understand, I was typing fast😂