Love should be stressful?

Question

I just saw this on Facebook from a girl who regularly posts things like this.

Leaving aside the term "wifey", which I despise, do you think this is true? Should communication in a relationship be as difficult and stressful as it sounds? Something about this is really rubbing me the wrong way. Aside from a few extremely rare occasions, my husband and I communicate just fine. We're able to talk things through, listen to each other, and resolve issues without arguments and unnecessary angst and stress. We're not constantly getting on each other's nerves either. We get along quite well 99.9% of the time, honestly. This makes it sound like getting along is a bad thing. 
What do you think? Do you think a willingness to fight and argue is a sign of a healthy relationship? Does it mean someone is "down" for the relationship? Should a relationship be as difficult as this sounds? Is getting on someone's last nerve the sign of a healthy relationship? I don't like this!! Tell me what you think.

Accepted Answer

She sounds like a child. 
Some disagreement in a relationship is healthy and normal. Constantly pissing each other off isn’t.

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I disagree personally! A healthy relationship shouldn’t be that difficult, one shouldn’t fight and be exhausted in a relationship. Yes there are hard times that every couple faces and they should stick together and help each other as much as possible but there comes a point where it becomes too toxic and that is draining for both parts.

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I disagree and I think it romanticizes toxic relationships. Commutation without escalating into an argument is an area where my boyfriend and I have been working on getting better. It is not fun and our relationship is better when we communicate effectively. 
I also have a FB friend who posts stuff like this all the time and I’m just like 🙄🙄🙄

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Nah. I prefer to spend my time with people who don’t get on my last nerve. Lol wtf

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Good god, no absolutely! Communication is essential and poor communication is an easy way to destroy a relationship.

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That’s a pretty toxic mindset to have. That’s basically saying “if she’s trying to control you and helicopter over you, that’s the one” 
Nooo. You need space to grow and make your own decisions with the support of your spouse, not the nagging.

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No. If your fighting just for the sake of fighting with no room for growth. But constantly turning it into a toxic thing like dragged out fights without any sort of compromise... that is not healthy... now having a disagreement and wanting to compromise is right way to go. Not saying that every relationships are going to be sunshine and roses. But it should never be stressful, to the point of why am I with you.

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This is childish as fuck. A woman or man shouldn't stress you out, they should ease the stress

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I don’t agree with it. And I think that every relationship is so different, as every person has different attributes that they need in a partner.
My husband and I have been together for 9 years. He always credits me with pushing him to be a hard worker and to be confident. I credit him with calming me down and making me a more patient and understanding person. 
Sometimes we get on each other’s nerves, but we talk through it.

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Oh shit finally I think I'm doing something right 😂

Love should be stressful?

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