Okay, so my boyfriend and I have been together for 4 years! It will be 5 years in september! We also have a 5 month old son. I wanted to be married before kids & we’ve talked about marriage & his reasoning for not getting married is because we’re not “financially where he wants to be.” Y’all think this is just an excuse? Everyone is telling me if he wanted to marry me he would have done so by now. & I’m kinda starting to believe it. Y’all think I’m wasting my time? Like idk I’m so confused. I just feel like it’s never going to happen.