Tips on preventing performance anxiety for men?

Question

We’re TTC now, but years of him telling himself not to cum in me (but on me) have put him in a practice to not do it at all when he’s inside me. 
Any tips on breaking him out of that habit?

Answer

Yaaaas thank you for posting something about this!!
Unfortunately, I’m in a similar boat and don’t have any advice 😉
For us, it’s the years of pulling out with the added pressure of wanting so badly to conceive- he ends up anxious that he will fail to preform... which will sometimes causes the failure to perform. Viscous cycle.  Argh.

Answer

Have him announce when he is close and talk to one another and encourage him to. Communication is key and I personally love that my husband tells me so we can time it together (orgasms are supposed to help sperm motility supposedly)

Tips on preventing performance anxiety for men?

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