How to stop thinking about your boyfriend's ex? Helpppp meee

Question

I'm in love with my guy for a few months and we are having fun, he loves me and I love him. But, sometimes, I think that I'm too selfish because I ofter go to his social network and find some things about his ex girlfriend and how were they. I dont like me to do this but I cant help to stop doing this. Can you give me some advices for my prolem?????

Answer

Honestly it’s all about self confidence. If you’re looking into his past it’s because somehow you are not sure if you’re enough for him compared to what he’s had before. 
Put it into perspective, they’re exes for a reason. 
Don’t waste your energy comparing yourself to them. For whatever reason it didn’t work with them and he’s with you now. 
This is something that I’ve learned throughout the years: CHOOSE YOUR BATTLES AND LOVE YOURSELF. 
If, for whatever reason, he doesn’t want to be with you anymore, or he talks to his ex, or cheats, or does anything to harm your relationship, it’s a clear reason that he’s not mature enough to have a serious relationship, and for this reason you shouldn’t be with him. 
Now, if he’s not showing signs of anything, don’t even bother thinking about them. The past doesn’t exist because it was once the present time and it’s no longer here anymore. 
Focus on yourself, on loving yourself first. If he ever leaves, who cares? You have to think of yourself first and be confident enough to know that you can be happy with yourself FIRST and then anyone else that want to come and share the love. You both have to be on the same level for this to work, 50%-50%, so work on self love and forget that those exes even existed. 
Hope it helps! Peace and love ✌🏼❤️

Answer

Just stop looking at his past and focus on the future you two will have. Your doing this to yourself.

How to stop thinking about your boyfriend's ex? Helpppp meee

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