Sooooo let’s talk after birth contractions

So with my first child, I NEVER felt them. You know when your uterus is contracting because it shrinking up or whatever. Then I had my second and it was more noticeable but not really. Thennnn ya girl had her third baby and I was dying the day after birth, holy balls I was feeling contractions like I did when I was in labor. Doctors would say that it gets worse after every child blah blah but I it definitely hurt like fuck for 2 weeks after birth. That’s what I’m scared of 😩😩😩😩 I’m not scared of labor or having a fourth child, I’m so not looking forward to the day afterwards when I’m going to have major cramping that going to cripple me like a dramatic whale... moaning and groaning. 😭😭😭😭😭😭