Helpppp

Toni

So I’ve been being ‘investigated’ (not that anyone’s doing much) for endo but I’m too young the doctors said for them to actually do anything but I’ve seen from articles online that a symptom is bad pain when and after having sex. I’m 16 and recently lost my virginity to an extremely close friend (yet to make it official😝) and it hurt sooo much and I was speaking to my friends who said a little pain was normal but not to the extent I was describing it as. My boy-friend knows about endo and I’ve told him that I thought that could be the reason I didn’t enjoy it as much as I should’ve so he said we could try again see if it was any different just in case maybe I was over exaggerating the pain. And we did. But the pain was the exact same if not worse so it’s put me off completely even though I’m so up for it. I don’t know if it is caused by endo or whether or not I’m just not comfortable or whatever yet but I was wondering if anyone could describe what they’re pain is like and when abouts they get it. I feel so bad for him cause he feels like it’s his fault even though we all know undiagnosed endo is really at fault😢