My husband is taking time off when our fourth baby arrives.. he works very long hours.. 12-16 hours.. he’s had jobs where he has been at camp for weeks at a time.. he’s been working year after year providing for us. I am soo greatful for him. & the fact that he wants to take a long time off work to help me at home & to enjoy time with the kids makes me love him more.. it’s his last week of work.. & he’s so excited he’s been making comments often... that drives me up the wall. “I’m so excited, things are going to change around here” .. “this place will be so organized & clean while I’m home” “kids are going to listen soo good cause I’ll be home.” “It’s going to be nice to just finally relax” .. ok but I keep our house clean.. is it not clean and organized enough? Wait, I raise our kids, are they not listening because of me? Lmao relax? Son this is going to be our 4th. Relax. When? 😂 he actually done homework tonight for the first time in like months & then put them to bed & came back like “I like it I think I’ll start putting them to bed at 8 like this instead.” Instead of what? Ive literally been putting them to bed every night for the whole school year at 8!!. I love him sooo much but he is unaware of what being a stay at home mom is like lol. His intentions are good, he’s a good daddy & good husband. I know he isn’t saying anything to undermine me or anything lol just find it funny..