My fiancé and I have a beautiful 2 year old daughter. We have a stable home, I come and relationship. I am very lucky to have them both in my lives. Since my daughter turned one I have thought about having another child. My fiancé disagrees and thinks we should wait 5 more years, (daughter would be 7), this way we are for sure ready.

Well I believe 2 weeks ago we ended up having sex no protection. Now mind you we have been on the pill and used condoms for two years. We had every intention to get the plan b pill the next morning. Which did not happen as we forgot and were very busy. It wasn’t till last night, that I realized I’m late.

I told my fiancé, about how there may be a chance I’m pregnant. I do occasionally have irregular periods, and that if I still don’t have it by next week. Then I want to take a test..

My fiancé does NOT want another child and thinks if we ever do get pregnant we should get an abortion. My fiancé also respects that this is my body my decision and will support whatever I decide, but that is his opinion on the matter.

The reason for the whole story is, I’m freaking out because it is day 3 no period still. I have tender breasts, and have been craving clam chowder, which I only craved when pregnant. I have never had an abortion and to me I want to know now. I’m very confused on the situation and just really needed to vent that out...