Sex after baby

So I had my first baby in April. It’s been a little over 8 months and my sex life isn’t back to normal. Before I had a baby I was always down to have sex every day or at least every other day. Now it’s maybe twice a month. And it’s not because I’m tired, I just don’t want to sometimes. I also before never had any issues with getting wet. Now, I do and when I do get wet we have to have sex like right away or I just get dry. I’m not opposed to using lube but is any of this going to go back to the way it was before? I always joke and say there’s something wrong with me but I feel like this is probably normal for postpartum but I figured it’d be back to normal by now.