Hi Ladies, I need your advice or input! This is my very first ever c section and I’m

Beyond scared with all the horror stories I keep hearing and what people tell me and what I read.

My first child was all natural and vaginal however this one is just too big she’s weighing 10 pounds and they were afraid that she would get shoulder distorcia or we both go under stress.

What should I expect?

What should I do?

Will I be able to breast feed even though I didn’t have her vaginal?

The pain is it really that painful?

How long will the pain last?

I’m really really scared because this wasn’t apart of my birthing plan. I learned from my first as I was really young and now I had this all planned out according to plan and this was a huge and scary curve ball!

My date is schedule for the 17 of Jan and my mucus plug has come out 3 times with in the past week I’ve had contractions and still no broken water. I truly wanted to her naturally but she’s just too big.

So for this long question but I’m just freaked out!