My not be the right group, but here goes!

So I've just had my second boy 12 weeks ago, he's 3 months on the 13th, we already had a pregnancy scare due to a very long period without AF, however after that I'm more in the mindframe of if it happens it happens now, however my partner was glad I believe when my AF came he danced 😂😂 however before we engage in physical contact I tell him the condoms are there, but he just doesn't but one on.. I can't seem to understand why considering he doesn't want another yet..

I really adamant about going on the pill and implant as I've had them before it made me bleed from the moment I had it to the moment I stopped!

Why do men have to be dicks sometimes