How hard was marriage at the beginning for you??

Hello I’m writing this post in regards to married women and the obstacles you had to face during the beginning or marriage. My husband and I have been together for 1 and a half and married for 4 months. It’s been the roughest 4months of our whole relationship where sometimes I think I married the wrong person or we need to throw in the towel. Counseling is definitely a thing that needs to be taken again but how many ladies had problems at the beginning of there marriage and what fixed it or what was the secret. Needing help thanks in return. 😊😊