Baby hates car seat and car! Please help

heather

My 13 week old hates the car and car seat and it just seems to be getting worse. My first was the same way but I just stayed home and became a recluse for months, which was depressing. With our new baby it’s so much harder because I can’t stay home. At first, he would cry and fall asleep but that’s because he was a newborn. Now he just screams and cries the entire time and I have to take my 3 year old to school 3 days a week. It just kills me! I feel like I’ve tried everything. Changed car seats, played music, played white noise, waited until he was tired, hung an iPad and played a video, hung a picture of myself, used a mirror and used toys! Nothing at all works! Other than taking my 3 year old to school, I stay home and that is getting to me. I just want to be able to go places and feel normal!! Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated!!