Is this rape?

This post might be a little long please read and comment. Okay so when I was in middle school my 7th grade year I met my mom's ex husband's family there was a boy there in particular that kept staring at me he didn't say anything to me he just stared...so fast forward to my 8th grade year the boy reconnected with me and I was pretty naive to everything although previously I had been molested by my great grandfather from the ages of 7 through 14 so I should've seen the signs of a potential predator. I was a virgin before I met this guy he would always try things but I was say no and say I want to wait until I'm married but if I didn't do it he would say that I don't love him and if I do love him I will so of course being 14 ish not knowing much of anything I would do it. Finally came the night where he was trying to make me give up my virginity to him I kept saying no and would make barriers between us but he would get around them and keep pressuring me saying the same thing I just sat there I didn't give consent but he did take my virginity which resulted in me getting pregnant after I got pregnant he stopped talking to me completely. I pushed everything to the back of my mind until recently because he has came back around trying to contact me to see my son so that got me to thinking is this considered rape or was it consensual?