i have some insecurities that i cannot get past and they are causing so many arguments !

i am super insecure about what my boyfriend looks at. i know it’s natural for a guys (even a girls) eyes to wonder OCCASIONALLY and for them to look up suggested videos and things online, but i can’t seem to get past it. it makes me SO UPSET! i have anger issues as well (mild) and i’m trying to fix it.

i understand that these things are natural but i keep finding myself bringing it up over and over and starting fights. how can i stop ? like tips on how to lose thee insecurities maybe ?

i’m sure you know what i’m trying to say

XOXO