Hey girls, so I'm in a long distance relationship and we only get to visit in person like...every 2 months, sometimes longer. When we visit it's not for a long time either, maybe 1 week. Anyways, my boyfriend plays video games just like many other guys, but he plays all the time. Right now he's on holidays and so he has all day to play all the games he wants. Which is fine but when we call he continues to play. We video call almost every day in the evening/night but not for long. Sometimes 1h or 2. But during this time he has to play. We can still have a conversation sometimes. But hes distracted and has delayed responses most of the time. Is it really that hard to stop playing and actually talk? What would you do about this?

One time he said he wouldnt play and we would just talk. That did happen, for 1h then he got bored and went back to playing. This annoys me so much because I just want to have a normal conversation with no distractions. Since he is on his pc, I go on mine to but I dont even end up doing things, I basically find stuff to make myself look busy. I dont just wanna sit in silence watching him until he wants to talk. When we call he plays and I talk and he talks a bit and he knows I dont like this. Please help. Do you have any advice?