Confused and defeated

Every cycle you ignore the symptoms because as you all know symptoms of pregnancy and period are the same.

The weekend before Christmas I was sick with cold symptoms and then Christmas Day and new year I spent drinking A LOT!!

I was so prepared to have my period this month, I got my pads in and I pre-arranged to not sleep at my boyfriends this weekend and I was due 10th January so Thursday just gone....

No period and no cramps etc just like a normal day 🤷🏽‍♀️

So I thought okay it could come overnight but nope nothing.

Got to Friday afternoon, being a day late and I’ve never been late before so I thought I’ll stay at my boyfriends and enjoy the opportunity.

Had lovely weekend and had sex tonight and I started spotting, just now I wiped and I think it’s the start of my period although I have no cramps.

I don’t know what to think and I haven’t a clue what’s going on 🤷🏽‍♀️

Anyone had a similar experience and either been pregnant or had their period?