Baby shower for #2

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I have been on the fence if I want to have a baby shower for my second son. My sister is due 2 months before me and it will be her first. Our family all live out of state and I don’t want to steal her thunder since it’s her first so I’m not sure if I want to have a baby shower.

My husband wants to so he can have friends over but I don’t honestly have any friends ever since I had my son so I haven’t really been excited to throw a party for no one to show.

We don’t need the gifts but we would like to just celebrate with friends and family. It would honestly only be his family and friends so I’ve been reluctant to event want to do anything.

What has everyone else done for #2?