One of use wants to know πŸ‘ΆπŸ»πŸ€°πŸ»

Angelia β€’ Wife and momma to a sweet perinatal stroke survior! πŸ‘ΆπŸ»πŸ’™πŸ’–

The other doesn't..

So... even though I've always imagined I'd want to know the gender before the baby comes, I surprised myself (lol) by wanting the baby's gender to be a surprise for me.

I know DH and a lot of family want to know before he or she is born. The argument is I/they can't fully plan for the baby without knowing. I'm aware that it might be a case where I just find out even though it's not my first choice, but I'd like to explore thoughts, ideas, and opinions of others. Does anyone have any ideas on how we can still keep it a surprise for me, but let everyone else or just DH know so they can enjoy things in their own way? All thoughts and ideas are welcome πŸ’–

Also if you just kept the gender to one spouse please let me know how your family responded, and how you handled negative feedback on your decision.