10 DPO and feel so down 😔 losing hope

I know it’s “early”... but

1. I had brown spotting 6-7 dpo

2. It’s so HARD not to get hopes up seeing so many get their BFP so early on. My temps are starting to drop, and I just feel so helpless like this is never going to happen to me. Month after month I just feel so sad around now and losing hope fast