this is my second pregnancy.

during my first i didnt like people just coming up to me and rubbing my belly.

it didnt matter whether it was family, friends or strangers.

i never mastered a polite way to say" dont touch me" .

i never understood why its okay to put your hands on someone else especially while pregnant.

how do you stop people in theyre tracks or get them off of you once theyre rubbing. ?????

my sister in law once came up behind me ( big spoon style) and started rubbing me belly with both hands and telling me how much she loved pregnancy. like . thats sweet in all but this is super creepy .