Losing my v card

So last night me and my boyfriend had sex for the first time. I was nervous but ready butttt he doesn’t know that he was taking my virginity. We used a condom but it hurt a lot but I didn’t tell him because he thinks I’ve already lost it. Also I was enjoying it but I wasn’t wet at all and he thought I was turned off by him because I wasn’t wet. And then when we were switching position we were trying to get it in but he went totally soft and it hurt my feelings. But he claims he was really horny and was turned on can I get anybody else’s opinion on this?