My husband and I both have sons from previous relationships. My sons father wasn’t involved from the moment I told him I was pregnant and my husbands Ex wouldn’t allow him in for the birth of their son. So with our baby I wanted it to just be my husband and I. My mother in law is expecting to be there as she was there for the past 6 grandkids. I just don’t feel that close to her she doesn’t bother with us. My husband hasn’t got the balls to tell her either leaving it down to me. 🤦🏼‍♀️