I lost my virginity about 6 months ago to a guy that I had been seeing and whilst the sex was amazing I didn’t cum. Although I only recently became ‘sexually active’ I’ve been masturbating for years and even have some toys, the only problem is that I’ve never cum...

My boyfriend and I have sex quite regularly and I’ve told him about my issue as such and he is hell bent on correcting it (which isn’t a problem). The sex is great, there isn’t a problem with his size or the duration either but he can seem quite down sometimes when he can’t make me climax, I’ve reassured him many times that it’s okay and even though I didn’t cum it still felt amazing, but I’m not sure that he quite believes me fully.

There are times when we’re having sex where I’m so sure that I need to pee but afterwards it wears off, I’ve heard that sometimes people get that sensation before cumming? But I’m scared that if I do give in to it that I will end up peeing all over my boyfriend...

Does anyone have some advice or has gone through a similar thing?