So background - my exhusband is extremely abusive. Emotionally and physically, he’s also an alcoholic. To be able to move out of state he gets custody of our 2 year old son (I left before he turned 1) for about 2 months a year. That in addition to me receiving no money in our divorce and taking child support that is FAR BELOW what the state would have required.

Anyways this b****** is constantly involving himself in my new life. I got remarried to a very supportive loving man - and he threw a fit this was about 8 months ago. Now we’re pregnant (15 weeks to be exact) and he’s gone out of his way to stalk me and find out we’re expecting. Our registry is how he found out it’s NOT posted online (you need to go into the store and ask for it with my name and my husbands name) we did it this way because my ex is so crazy and didn’t want to put it online so we could tell him around the 26 week mark just before the next time we would have to interact with him. Now he’s questioning if I can take care of this new baby and my son. He’s saying he “had to find out about this big life event “second hand”” mind you we have only told our family and haven’t posted to social media. He’s become overly aggressive and harasses is daily. It’s eating me alive - I can’t get rid of him, I can’t make him stop! ITS NONE OF HIS DAMN BUSINESS IF I HAVE MORE CHILDREN! His business in my life begins and ends with my son!

Rant over. I’m just so upset and he’s being so irrationally rude - like obviously I can care for two children. You pawn my son off on your mom while he visits you and could care less. He just wants to control my life which he gave up the right to do when he signed the divorce papers!