Am I weird for this?

Question

Every time I catch my man trying or is masterbating, I feel emotionally hurt. We don’t have issues with sex or anything and do it pretty often actually but once in a blue moon I catch him doing it and it really hurts like I’m not good enough or what ever. I explain to him every time it hurt and why and understands and apologizes. Am I the only one out here feeling like this ??

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Men are very different than women. Many men will describe "needing" to get off to concentrate and focus, etc. Lots of men don't necessarily masturbate just for sexual satisfaction. 
Pleasing himself isn't a crime...we can't all have sex anytime we want and it feels good to get off when you need it...don't take it personally. Sounds like he cares about you but still needs to have an orgasm when he needs it...for whatever reason.

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If it is not affecting your sex life, why are you upset? Maybe he just wants a quick release on his own sometimes. 🤷‍♀️

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You shouldn’t feel ashamed or insecure because of that.
It’s completely normal and natural for people to masturbate. 
You could tell him to let you try helping me or if he feels the urge come play with you. You shouldn’t make him feel bad either because than he will just hide it from you. 
Sometimes if me and my parter don’t orgasm fast enough. he’d jump up and say running late, ima finish in the shower and I pull my toy out like ok. 😂

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I feel the same way sometimes, but it’s natural for him.  Sometimes they just need some alone time, that doesn’t mean he doesn’t want you or doesn’t find you attractive.

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I’ve done this a few times tbh idk just an emotional wreck at times, idk if it’s a normal feeling but ur not alone feeling tht way

Am I weird for this?

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